Silent Consolidation
The Silent Consolidation…
The initial point in consolidating your silent power is to discipline yourself to stop leaning. When you are the most desperate to lean in on people, that’s when you should exercise control. The game is called: “Stand Straight in Life.” Not many have heard of it.
First, don’t lean toward things you don’t have. Affirm, visualize, and take action instead.
Second, try not to lean into the future by talking or thinking about it constantly. Instead, take time each day to make the “now” special, honoring what you do have and what you have achieved. Avoid what I call plan-itis. Endlessly making plans and talking about them — “one day, someday…” trashes your power and gets you nowhere – no results and no action.
Third, start to design your life so that you don’t require things from others. Try to need only those things you can get yourself. And don’t suck on people emotionally or intellectually.
Stuart Wild – “Silent Power”